Whether you’re traveling short-term or long-term, chances are you’ll eventually encounter some rude or entitled travellers. During our South America trip, we noticed it especially in more luxury destinations like the Galápagos and Patagonia, where some people seemed to behave… a little differently.
One moment that really stuck with me happened while crossing the border into Argentina. An older man was so incredibly rude to me that he actually made me cry. Yep, a man twice my age made a girl cry right before border control, so picture me getting my passport stamped with tears streaming down my face. A proud moment for him, I’m sure.
Since I have a sensitive personality, these interactions tend to hit me harder. But it’s not just about being sensitive, it’s also the exhaustion from traveling, the stress, and the frustration of being treated like you’re somehow less than others.
So, what can you do to cope with encounters like this?
Trust me, it’s easier said than done, and I don’t always follow these tips myself (and that’s completely okay). Emotions happen. But here’s what has helped me:
Tips for Dealing with Rude Travellers
- Remember: it’s about them, not you. People who treat others badly usually have their own issues. Their bad behaviour says everything about them and nothing about you. It’s sad they try to ruin someone else’s day just because they’re miserable.
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It’s okay to cry or feel hurt. You’re human. Suppressing your emotions will only make it worse. Let it out.
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Stay calm and don’t engage. As tempting as it might be, don’t yell back or start a confrontation. These kinds of people are experts at flipping the script and making it seem like you are the problem. Be the better person.
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Remove yourself if possible. If they create a scene, try to physically distance yourself. Like in my situation on the bus, if there’s another seat free, don’t hesitate to move.
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Write it down afterwards. Journaling or even writing a quick note on your phone can help you release all the pent-up emotion and frustration.
After reflecting on that situation, I actually ended up feeling a little sorry for him. Not in a “poor baby” way, but in a “wow, what a sad existence” way. And honestly, I felt even sorrier for his wife, assuming she’s not the same way, because she probably has to deal with that behaviour every single day.
Final Thoughts
Traveling can be one of the most incredible experiences of your life, but it also comes with challenges, including dealing with people who test your patience. Remember, your emotions are valid, and it’s okay to feel upset sometimes. What’s important is how you move through it. Protect your peace, don’t let someone else’s bad attitude ruin your day, and focus on why you’re there in the first place: to experience amazing places, meet kind people (because they definitely exist too!), and create memories for yourself. In the end, the rude ones are just a small bump on an otherwise incredible journey.
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